Havent Blogged in a while

Apologize for that. It is November and I am trying to graduate next semester, lol. So you already know that the pressure is on. I hope everyone is doing well. I am under the weather; however, I have not failed to keep my hair's health up to par. I am two weeks post today. I have only one goal in November, NO RELAXER! I am trying to get more growth for my upcoming graduation. However, I am no longer predicting my relaxers. I never meet the dates that I would really like for my hair to be relaxed anyway. So, I am going to play it by ear.

As of right now, I only have a couple of problem areas. One, I have a prob with handling my hair after NG has came in, so I am going to work on that one this month. Also, I am going to be working on my left side of my edges, trying to grow them in. I am also trying fill in the gap in the back of my head. I am also want my left side to grow out and maintain even hair. PLUS growth! So, I guess I have more than a couple of things I am working on.

I wasn't ready

What is my title about? Today was my alma mater's homecoming. I haven't attended a high school event since I have been out of school, five years ago. I haven't seen many of my classmates, maybe two every now and then. But the opportunity arosed today to go tailgate. I went to the tailgate. I saw three classmates then. One asked me to come to homecoming game. I told her ok. My brother has only been out of high school a year. When my brother came home for the festivities, he made sure he looked good for the parade and the tailgating. For the game, he dressed up really nice. He wanted to look like an "alumini," he said. I asked jokingly, you want to show people that you are doing something with your life. He said of course. After the comment was made and responded to, I started feeling uneasy. I didn't want to go all of a sudden. I felt inferior to people, even though I am probably one out of every twenty five people I would have bumped into to go to college. But why did I feel like I wasn't doing anything with myself. I felt really bad. I did not feel like I had anything going for me. So, I stayed home, writing this blog, feeling like a lame. I was not ready to show my face. I was not ready to go out and do this. My high school experience was horrible; I didn't have many friends. I was picked on alot. Even though I am probably doing alot more than what some of these same people are doing, I did not feel that way.
What is wrong with me???

What have you been doing?

Hello...I have been looking at my hair in disgust. lol...That is what I have been doing. My hair is blah and I am ashamed. What happened was I was experiencing serious shedding that did not go away with my protein treatments. So, at six or seven weeks, I decided to relax. I didn't see to much growth and I was still shedding. So, I styled my hair, moisturized and kept moving. The next week, I noticed more shedding hair. So I decided to wash my hair and DC. While I was air drying, I dared myself to give my hair that even back trim that I needed so bad. And I did. It looks so much better...but one side could be trim 1/4 to 1/2 inch more. But I am going to wait next relaxer. Last week, I decided to wash my hair again but instead of DC and then a leave in, I only decided to do my protein and the water based leave in moisturizer. BEST THING I EVER DID!!! My hair is so much better. I still have some shedding, but not like I used to. So, I am cutting down my usage of moisture. Slowly, I am going to reteach myself moisture and protein balance without experimenting in my head.

I am still hoping for BSL for Christmas, despite the trim. I am still hopeful. I am also waiting for MBL before the end of summer 2012.
Continue to follow me. Hopefully, I will get a camera soon for pix.

-Lex-

Coming Soon: Melanie Fiona inspired hair

So, I was looking on the internet and found this hairstyle on Melanie Fiona that I want so bad.

It is youthful, but very adult, in my opinion. The only problem is....my hair is obviously not long enough for that side braid. I tried it with my real hair. It was a cute hair style for the beach, but it is not what I am exactly looking for. So I went to BSS and bought a pack of PERM YAKY BRAID hair. I am going to use this hair for my braid. I am still working out the kinks of how I am going insert the hair to look natural. I am six weeks post, looking a hot mess, lol, so I believe this will help my hair and the weave look cohesive, if anything. I will probably be doing hairstyle in the next few days...so be looking out for the end results, comparison, my opinion and a tutorial.

with love,
Lex

Researching For My Hair's Sake

So, I am home for this Labor Day weekend. I washed my hair today. I look into the mirror at my airdrying hair, and I am so bored with it. I am getting frustrated with so many things about my hair that I have two choices: find some solutions asap or cut it all off. Since no one is gonna go for that last one, I am going to attempt to research all of September to get on board by October or this ish is getting the boot. I have so many problems that I am about to face:

boring hairstyles - need to find better styles with little manipulation and heat

breakage - my bonnet is breaking off my edges all the way around my head

thin ends - that should be easy to treat

overall thickness - something should help it

more growth - i would like to see an extra but of NG with my relaxers

lack of moisture - ehh

find balance with protein - ehh

The list goes on and on. I am so ready for change, regardless of the overall result. Ugh!!!!!! Wish me luck...I'll keep you updated.

Back at School

Hello, everyone. I am back at school now. I am about three hours away from my home town. I feel guilty having to leave because no one is going to have full time care of my mother's and grandmother's hair like I did. Also, when I was home, I would sway both of them from unhealthy habits, like grandmother use a lot of heat and my mother picks in her hair which leave bare spots. BUT, I am going home this weekend. I am going to relax my mother's hair and take a pic for everyone to see. I also need to have a list of products made up for them both to use as reference while I am not there. I could also refer to it, for I am not an expert, lol.

A little update about my hair. So, I decided to blow dry and flat iron my hair Friday. I tugged on my hair to do a quick length check. I had to do it over and over and over and over. Why? Because I could have sworn that a couple of strands were touching my BRA! I was too excited! But I am almost five weeks post. I will relax in another five. So, I will just see what my October relaxer will bring me. This weekend I am going to try another roller set and start wearing them for a few months to help with low manipulation between classes. I am still working on my problem areas, and I will have a complete update on those when I am either closer to my relaxer or post relaxer. I would love to sit here and talk about hair all day. But I do have a class in 19 mins. So, I will end here. But I am going to pick up on another post about a friend of mines and how I may be assisting in growing her hair back, also.
Muah, with love,
Lexie

Still working on my BLOG

So, I promised to have my blog up and running, but I haven't tweaked all the way. I had a very devastating death in my family. That put me way back, plus I had three finals to take. The classes are over and my grandfather is put to rest; maybe I can start getting used to this new adjustment.
Before he passed, my grandfather told me that he would never want to see me with short hair again. He got his wish, and I going to continue to push for longer lengths. I am going to make him so proud.

Time for updates:
I was going to relax next week on August 7th, but because of the untimely passing, I decided to cut my stretch short to a very shocking 7 weeks. This is the shorts stretch on record for me. I will NOT do this again. I did not lose any hair nor do I feel like I over processed. I feel like I was very mindful of my NG and my treated hair. I had to be more careful which made my relaxer time longer. That I did not care for. But I had a great relaxer. I will one week post tomorrow. As of right now, I do not have any updates to address about my mother's and grandmother's hair.

I will enter my last semester of my BS this month. I am so excited! I will attempting 19 hours, whoo! I know people have had more, but this will be the most for me. Graduation is December 9th, 2011 and I am hoping for BSL hair to go with my cap and gown. Oh!...and also straight A's, lol. But that is all I have to report at the time. Check out the new additions to my blog coming up REAL SOON this time, I promise.
Until next time,
Muah, Lexie